100 Flirty Text Messages That Will Drive Him Crazy

I’ll never forget when my girlfriend first sent me that text.

It was just another afternoon. I was zoning out at work when my phone vibrated.

She wrote:
“I was thinking about how your hands feel on me, and I realized I smile every time.”

My heart stopped.

Literally.

My mind drifted. I couldn’t focus for the rest of my shift.

She didn’t say anything dirty. She didn’t overshare. She simply planted the seed… and let it grow.

That’s the beauty of flirtatious texts.

Sending a man cute messages isn’t about being dirty for the sake of it or funny just to be funny. It’s about building tension, emotional intimacy, and that addictive feeling of knowing he wants you—just as badly as you want him.

When you learn how to hit him with the right text at the right time, he’ll think about you all day. He’ll replay your conversation in his mind. And he’ll feel closer to you than ever before—even if you’re miles apart.

Ready to keep your man glued to his phone thinking about you?

Whether you’re newly dating, in a relationship, married, or just want to spice things up, these 100 flirty texts will have you covered.

Copy them. Paste them. Edit them. Use them to spark your own ideas.

Whatever you do… have fun with them.

They’re little words, but they can have a big impact.

100 Flirty Text Messages That Will Drive Him Crazy

Sweet & Subtle Flirts

“I caught myself smiling at my phone earlier… thanks.”
“You popped into my head out of nowhere, and now I can’t stop thinking about you.”
“I wish you were here.”
“You make my everyday feel special.”
“I don’t know what you did to me, but I can’t forget about you.”
“Every song sounds better when I think it’s about you.”
“I had no idea how much I’d miss you today.”
“I’ll admit it—thinking about you is my favorite pastime.”
“I can’t believe how good you make me feel.”
“You just made my day by sending that text.”

Playful & Teasing Flirts

“Am I this sexy all the time, or are you saving it for me?”
“You should probably stop being so sexy. It’s not fair.”
“I think you might be responsible for my permanent smile.”
“You’re seriously ruining other guys for me.”
“It’s not fair how good you look even when you’re doing nothing.”
“I dare you to try not thinking about me later.”
“You’re bad news… and I love it.”
“I think I’m officially stuck with you.”
“You’re making it really hard for me to be good.”
“Is it on purpose, or are you just naturally this flirtatious?”

Simple Romantic Texts

“You’re my home sweet home.”
“I didn’t know I could care about someone this much.”
“I love how safe I feel when I’m with you.”
“Being with you just feels right.”
“I could talk to you forever.”
“You make every day better.”
“Thinking about you still gives me butterflies.”
“I smile every time I see your name.”
“You make me believe in love again.”
“I’m happy I get to know you.”

Confidence-Boosting Texts

“You’re handsome on the outside and inside.”
“I love your confidence.”
“You make me feel wanted.”
“You’re more attractive than you realize.”
“I’m lucky to have you.”
“You have this air about you that pulls me in.”
“You make me feel chosen.”
“You’re hard to forget.”
“I love having you.”
“You’re something special.”

Mischievous Texts

“I can’t wait to tell you something later—I know you’ll love it.”
“Tonight is only going to get better.”
“I can’t wait to see you.”
“All I do is think about the next time we’ll be together.”
“The minutes are flying by while I wait for you.”
“You’re going to make me blush later, aren’t you?”
“I have something planned for you.”
“I’m excited for all the things we haven’t done yet.”
“I can’t wait to mess with you.”
“You’ll be thinking about me later.”

Flirty but Classy

“I love the way you look at me.”
“I feel like I can still feel you when you leave.”
“You have this effect on me.”
“I keep replaying the last moment we spent together.”
“You’re making me feel things.”
“You know exactly what you’re doing.”
“I need you.”
“You leave an imprint on me.”
“You take my breath away.”
“You linger with me.”

Casual Cute Flirts

“I saw something that reminded me of you.”
“You just popped into my head again… it happens a lot.”
“I wish you could see me right now—I’m smiling so hard.”
“You’re my favorite notification.”
“I hate how much I love talking to you.”
“I’m secretly obsessed with you.”
“You’re my happy place.”
“I love our little bubble.”
“You make boring things fun.”
“You complete me.”

Building Emotional Connection

“You know me so well.”
“My feelings feel valid when I’m with you.”
“You bring out the best in me.”
“I feel different around you—in a good way.”
“I didn’t think anyone could make me feel like this.”
“You’ve become something special to me.”
“I love how we fit together.”
“You remind me of home.”
“You make me feel appreciated.”
“I’m glad we met.”

Straightforward Flirts

“I want you.”
“I miss you more than I should.”
“I think about you more than I admit.”
“You’re driving me crazy.”
“I like the way you make me feel.”
“I’m listening.”
“You’re my type.”
“I can’t look away from you.”
“You’re easy on the eyes.”
“I want you close to me.”

Goodnight Flirts

“I wish you were here with me.”
“I’ll be thinking about you when I fall asleep.”
“You’ll be the last thing on my mind tonight.”
“Goodnight… and don’t forget that I want you.”
“I can’t wait to wake up next to you.”
“You always make my days end on a high note.”
“I wish we could say goodnight face to face.”
“You’re always the best part of my day.”
“I hope you dream about me.”
“Goodnight, sweetie… remember you’re loved.”

Final thought

Sending flirty texts doesn’t mean reciting lines from movies.

When a woman tells a man she wants him, she doesn’t sound scripted.

She sounds eager.
She sounds real.
She sounds like, “Yes—I want you.”

Your man wants to feel craved.
Not impressed by a cheesy line from a romance novel.

When my girlfriend told me she thought about me all the time, she wasn’t trying to be clever. She was genuine. She was herself. And she made me feel wanted—that’s what pulled me in.

These texts are just suggestions. Use them if you like. But real flirtation comes from the heart.

Let them inspire you to say what you’re already thinking.

Because when you let a man know that you want him…

He doesn’t just lean in closer.

He falls right in.

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Onwe Damian Chukwuemeka is a relationship and self-improvement coach, as well as a final-year law student at the University of Calabar, Nigeria. He has distinguished himself in leadership and service, and has held key positions such as Deputy Director of Public Prosecution in the Students’ Union Government and Justice of the Malabor High Court, University of Calabar, Nigeria. Learn more about him

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