150 Sexy Texts For Her To Drive Her Wild

One thing I’ve learned in my relationship is that sending the right text at the right time can change everything.

Never sent a sexy text to your girlfriend? Whenever I send mine a sexy message—whether it’s in the middle of her workday or late at night—I can almost guess how she’ll react.

Sometimes she blushes and sends me a playful emoji, sometimes she calls just to tease me back, and other times she hits me with the “just wait until later” reply that makes me count down the hours.

That’s why I love sexy texting. It keeps the spark alive, builds anticipation, and reminds her that I’m always thinking about her in more ways than one.

If you’ve been wanting to spice things up, I’ve put together 150 sexy texts for her you can use as inspiration.

Some are flirty, some are teasing, and some are downright naughty—perfect for whatever mood you’re in.

Flirty Sexy Texts for Her

“You looked way too good last night…I can’t get it out of my head.”
“Guess what I’m thinking about right now? (Hint: it involves you, no clothes, and my bed.)”
“I swear you have no idea what you do to me when you smile like that.”
“I’d rather be kissing you than doing anything else right now.”
“Tell me one thing you’d let me do to you tonight.”

Teasing Sexy Texts for Her

“I’m trying to focus, but all I can see is you in that dress you wore last weekend.”
“I wonder how long you’d last if I decided to tease you all night.”
“Don’t act innocent…I know exactly what you’re thinking.”
“Imagine me whispering exactly what I want to do to you in your ear right now.”
“If you were here, I’d have you begging in minutes.”

Romantic but Sexy Texts for Her

“I don’t just want your body…I want your laugh, your smile, your whole heart.”
“Falling asleep next to you is nice. But waking up and having my hands all over you? Even better.”
“You’re my safe place…and my wildest fantasy.”
“Every time I look at you, I fall harder…and get a little more distracted.”
“You’re everything I ever wanted…and everything I still crave.”

Naughty Late-Night Texts for Her

“It’s late…and I can’t stop thinking about how soft your skin feels.”
“If you were in my bed right now, you wouldn’t be sleeping.”
“I want to kiss you everywhere. And I mean everywhere.”
“Picture me holding you down, whispering in your ear how much I want you.”
“I’d be tracing every inch of your body with my hands right now if you let me.”

Playful Sexy Texts for Her

“Should I behave tonight…or misbehave?”
“You always make me want to skip the small talk and go straight to trouble.”
“If I start kissing your neck, would you stop me?”
“You have no idea how badly I want to steal you away right now.”
“Careful…if you keep texting me like that, I might not be able to control myself later.”
“Every time you bite your lip, I lose it. Stop driving me insane.”
“How am I supposed to concentrate when all I want to do is touch you?”
“You’re way too addictive. I’m hooked.”
“I wonder what would happen if I whispered exactly what I want into your ear right now.”
“I like the way your body fits perfectly against mine—it’s like you were made for me.”

Bold & Direct Sexy Texts for Her

“I want you. No games. No waiting. Just you.”
“If you were here, you’d already be pinned against the wall.”
“I can’t decide if I want to kiss you slowly…or fast enough to leave us both breathless.”
“Tell me you want me as much as I want you right now.”
“I’d give anything to have you under me tonight.”
“Don’t bother with pajamas tonight. You won’t need them.”
“I want to hear you moan my name until you can’t anymore.”
“I’d make sure you don’t get a single minute of sleep tonight.”
“I want to taste every inch of you.”
“You have no idea how much I crave you right now.”

Dirty But Playful Texts for Her

“If you were here, my hands wouldn’t be so well-behaved.”
“I’m imagining you in nothing but that smile of yours.”
“I’d slowly undress you and make sure you enjoy every second of it.”
“I’d love to see how red I can make your cheeks tonight.”
“If I started kissing you, I don’t think I’d stop until morning.”
“You make me want to do very bad things…and I love it.”
“I’d have you trembling in minutes if you let me.”
“Imagine my lips tracing down your stomach right now.”
“If I were there, I’d make sure you begged for more.”
“I’m not sure who would lose control first—you or me.”

Naughty Daytime Texts for Her

“Work is boring…I’d rather be tangled up with you right now.”
“Tell me what you’re wearing…and don’t leave out the details.”
“If people could hear my thoughts right now, I’d be in trouble.”
“You’re the distraction I’ll never complain about.”
“I want to sneak you away for five minutes…that’s all I’d need.”
“I bet your coworkers have no idea how naughty your texts get.”
“You have me thinking about you in ways I can’t say out loud right now.”
“I’m already imagining how good you’ll look tonight.”
“Be ready later…I have plans for you.”
“You’d be shocked at what I’m picturing doing to you at this very moment.”

Romantic but Naughty Texts for Her

“You’re my favorite person to laugh with…and my favorite to get wild with.”
“I love you, but I also love the way you make me lose control.”
“You make my heart race and my body ache for you at the same time.”
“You’re the sweetest thing in my life…and the sexiest.”
“I’d rather be in your arms than anywhere else in the world.”
“You’re my peace and my chaos all in one beautiful package.”
“The way I love you makes me want to show you in every possible way.”
“Every kiss we share makes me want more of you.”
“You’re my safe haven…and my wildest temptation.”
“I love how you can make me melt with just one look.”

Late-Night Dirty Texts for Her

“I can’t stop thinking about the way your body feels against mine.”
“I’d pull you close, kiss your neck, and make you beg for more.”
“I want to hear those sounds you only make with me.”
“If I had you in my bed, I wouldn’t let you leave until morning.”
“You drive me insane…and I love every second of it.”
“I’d run my hands over every inch of you, nice and slow.”
“Picture me whispering exactly how much I want you right now.”
“You’re the only thing on my mind—and my body knows it.”
“I’d have you tangled in the sheets before you knew it.”
“If you knew how badly I want you right now, you’d come over.”

Playful Dares Over Text

“Send me the sexiest thought running through your mind right now.”
“I dare you to tell me one thing you want me to do to you tonight.”
“Text me your secret fantasy—I promise I won’t judge.”
“Tell me where on your body you want my lips first.”
“I dare you to send me one word that will drive me crazy.”
“Close your eyes and imagine my hands on you. Now tell me how you’d react.”
“I dare you to tease me with just three words.”
“Tell me the wildest place you’d want me to kiss you.”
“Describe how you’d undress me if I were standing in front of you right now.”
“I dare you to admit one thing you’ve never told me in bed.”

Fantasy Sexy Texts for Her

“Imagine us on a beach at night, nothing but moonlight and your body against mine.”
“I want you in the shower, steam everywhere, my hands all over you.”
“Picture us sneaking away somewhere we shouldn’t be.”
“I want to wake up to you straddling me, kissing me awake.”
“Imagine me pinning you to the wall and not letting go.”
“I’d love to tie you up and take my time with you.”
“Picture me blindfolding you and letting your body guess what I’m doing next.”
“I want us tangled in the sheets, too lost in each other to stop.”
“Imagine us in the car, windows fogged, hands everywhere.”
“You, me, and absolutely no rules tonight.”

Compliment + Desire Texts for Her

“You’re the sexiest woman alive…and you’re mine.”
“Every time I see you, I want you more than the last time.”
“You don’t even realize how irresistible you are to me.”
“You could wear anything—or nothing—and I’d still want you the same.”
“Your voice alone is enough to turn me on.”
“The way you move drives me insane.”
“I’d drop everything just to have one kiss from you right now.”
“You don’t just turn heads—you turn me inside out.”
“You make it impossible for me to keep my hands to myself.”
“Every little thing about you makes me crave you more.”

Heat-of-the-Moment Sexy Texts for Her

“I’m literally hard just thinking about you.”
“My body reacts to yours before I can even think.”
“I want you so badly it hurts.”
“I’m counting down the minutes until I can touch you again.”
“You have me worked up and you’re not even here.”
“I’m already imagining how good you’ll taste tonight.”
“The thought of you naked is the only thing on my mind.”
“You make me want to lose control in the best way.”
“I’m craving you more than words can explain.”
“If you were in front of me, I wouldn’t be able to stop myself.”

Dominant & Possessive Sexy Texts for Her

“You’re mine—and tonight I’m going to prove it.”
“I want you begging for me.”
“Don’t even think about touching yourself unless I say so.”
“I’m going to have you screaming my name.”
“You belong to me, and I’ll make sure you feel it.”
“I want complete control over you tonight.”
“You’ll do exactly what I tell you…and love it.”
“I want to hear you say you’re mine.”
“You won’t walk straight tomorrow if I get my way.”
“I’m going to ruin you for anyone else.”

Sweet but Spicy Sexy Texts for Her

“You’re my favorite sin.”
“You’re too sweet to be this dangerous.”
“You drive me wild in the most beautiful way.”
“I want to love you gently…and then take you fiercely.”
“You’re everything I crave wrapped in one perfect body.”
“You’re soft, tempting, and completely addictive.”
“I want to kiss you like it’s the last time, every time.”
“You’re trouble…and I can’t get enough.”
“You’re the spark that sets me on fire.”
“You’re the most dangerous distraction I’ll never give up.”

Wild & Untamed Sexy Texts for Her

“I don’t just want you…I want all of you, every way possible.”
“I’d take you anywhere, anytime, any place.”
“I want to see how many times I can make you scream tonight.”
“You bring out the wildest side of me.”
“I want you sweaty, breathless, and begging for more.”
“I’d lose myself in you and never want to be found.”
“You’re the fantasy I’ll never stop chasing.”
“I want you so bad it feels primal.”
“I’d keep going until you’re shaking and can’t take anymore.”
“You’re my obsession, my addiction, and my favorite sin all at once.”

Final Thoughts

Sexy texting is more than just being naughty – it’s about stirring up the anticipation, making her feel wanted and keeping the fire burning even if you aren’t actually together in person.

The best bit is, you don’t have to copy these word for word. Use them as a source of inspiration and tweak them to make them your own to truly make it personal to your relationship.

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Onwe Damian Chukwuemeka is a relationship writer, a law student and a student advocate. He was the former Deputy Director of Public Prosecution SUG, University of Calabar, Nigeria, and currently one of the Judges of the High Court of the Student Union Government, University of Calabar. Learn more about him

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